For the Strength of Youth
My parents are divorced, and one is negative towards the Church. How can I keep the Spirit when I’m with that parent?
For the Strength of Youth February 2026


Questions and Answers

“My parents are divorced, and one is negative towards the Church. How can I keep the Spirit when I’m with that parent?”

young woman

“In Doctrine and Covenants 11:21, the Lord tells us: ‘Seek not to declare my word, but first seek to obtain my word … ; then, if you desire, you shall have my Spirit.’ Keep seeking the Holy Ghost through patience, kindness, scripture study, prayer, and fasting. He will guide you.”

Gabriela A., 16, São Paulo, Brazil

young man

“Some things that have been helpful for me have been to make time on my own to read the scriptures each day, speak positively and proudly about my beliefs, and be a good example. Also, I can pray anytime and Heavenly Father is always there for me.”

Ethan W., 17, Washington, USA

young woman

“I have experienced this situation before, and I prayed that I could keep an eternal perspective. Pray and fast to be able to feel the Spirit, and Heavenly Father will give you the best answer to remedy this situation!”

Isabelle L., 17, São Paulo, Brazil

young woman

“Being Christlike is one of the best ways to invite the Spirit and feel joy and peace. I find that when I am serving and being extra kind to someone, I really feel the Spirit.”

Maybelle K., 15, Utah, USA

young woman

“I feel the Spirit when I do things I know are right around that parent, like praying at mealtimes and reading my scriptures. When I’m being a missionary by example, I’m growing my testimony, which helps me recognize the Spirit and make time for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ!”

Mara B., 13, Ontario, Canada