Kubw’Ababyeyi—Gutegurira Abana Banyu Inzira y’Igihango cy’Imana Ubuzima Bwose

Nefi yagishije ko ”irembo tugomba kwinjirira ”mu nzira y’igihango” ari ukwihana n’umubatizo kubw’amazi”(2 Nefi 31:17). Imihate yanyu yo gufasha abana banyu kwitegura umubatizo n’Ukwemezwa ishobora gushyira ibirenge bayo kuri iyo nzira. Iyi mihate itangirana n’ukwigisha ibyerekeranye n’ukwizera Yesu Kristo n’ukwihana. Irimo kandi inyigisho yerekeranye n’uko tuvugurura igihango cy’umubatizo cyacu dusangira isakaramentu buri cyumweru.

Murasanga hano imfashanyigisho zimwe zishobora kubafasha: 2 Nefi 31; inyandiko idasanzwe y’ igazeti Inshuti yerekeranye n’umubatizo; Topics and Questions, “Baptism,” Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza.

• igihe cyose mugize ibihe bikomeza ukwizera kwanyu muri Data wo mu Ijuru na Yesu Kristo, nimubisangize umwana wanyu. Nimubafashe gusobanukirwa ko ukwizera ari ikintu gishobora gukomera kugenda gikomera mu buzima bwose. Mbese ni ibihe bintu bimwe umwana wanyu ashobora gukora kugira ngo arusheho kwagura ukwizera muri Kristo mbere y’uko babatizwa?

• Mu gihe umwana wanyu ahisemo nabi, nimumuvugishe munezerewe ku byerekeye impano y’ukwihana. Kandi mu gihe muhisemo nabi, nimusangire umunezero uza iyo mwihanye ibyaha byanyu buri munsi. Muhamye ko kubera ko Yesu Kristo yababaye kandi agapfa kubw’ibyaha byacu, dushobora kwihana buri munsi, tukababarirwa, kandi tugahabwa ububasha bwo guhinduka. igihe umwana wanyu asabye ko mumubarira,, nimumubabarire mwisanzuye kandi munezerewe.

• Mubwire umwana wanyu ibyerekeranye n’umubatizo wanyu. Mwerekane amafoto kandi musangire ibyibukwa. Muvuge ku byerekeye uko mwiyumviriye, uko kurinda igihano cyanyu by’umubatizo cyabafashije kuza kurushaho kumenya Yesu Kristo, n’uko ibihango byanyu bikomeje kubahesha umugisha. Mushyigikire umwana wanyu mu kubaza ibibazo.

• Ighe habayeho umubatizo mu muryango wanyu cyangwa muri paruwasi, nimujyaneyo umwana wanyu kugira ngo abirebe. Muganirire hamwe ku byo mwebwe n’umwana wanyu mwabonye kandi mwiyumviriye. Nibishoboka, muvugishe umuntu ubatizwa kandi mubaze ibibabzo nka: ”Mbese ni gute? Mbese witeguye gute?”

• Mu gihe icyo aricyo cyose mubonye umwana wanyu akora ikintu basezeranye gukora, nimumushime bivuye ku mutima. Kugaragaza ko kubahiriza ibyo twiyemeje bidufasha kurinda ibihango dukora mu gihe tubatizwa. Mbese ni iki dusezeranya Imana mu gihe tubatizwa? Ni iki Idusezeranya? (Reba Mosaya 18:8–10, 13.)

• Muvuge ibyerekeranye n’uko kwemezwa maze ugahinduka umunyamuryango w’Itorero rya Yesu Kristo ry’Abera b’Iminsi ya Nyuma byaguhesheje umugisha. Nk’urugero, uko twarushijeho kwegera Data wo mu Ijuru na Yesu Kristo ubwo wafashaga abandi n’uko abandi bagufashije. Mufashe umwana wanyu gutekereza inzira zo gufasha no gukomeza abandi nk’umunyamuryango w’Itorero. Mubafashe kandi kubona no kumenya umunezero uturuka mu gufasha.

• Igihe mwebwe n’umwana wanyu mugiriye hamwe ibihe bitagatifujwe (nko ku rusengero, mu gihe musoma ibyanditswe bitagatifu, cyangwa mu gihe mufasha umuntu), nimubabwire ibyerekeranye n’ibyiyumviro bya roho cyangwa imyumvire mufite. Musabe umwana wanyu gusangiza uko biyumvira. Murabona inzira zitandukanye Roho ashobora kuvugisha abantu, harimo n’inzira Abavugisha ubwanyu ku giti cyanyu. Mufashe umwana wanyu kumenya no kubasangiza ibihe bashobora kuba barimo kumva ububasha bwa Roho Mutagatifu.

• Murebere hamwe videwo zo mu rwunge rw’Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza rwitwa “Hear Him!” Muganirire hamwe ibyerekeranye n’uburyo butandukanye abagaragu ba Nyagaasani bumva ijwi Rye. Musabe umwana wanyu gushushanya ishusho cyangwa akore videwo yerekeranye n’uko bumba ijwi rya Nyagasani.

• Gutuma isakaramentu riba umuhango mutagatifu kandi unejeje mu muryango wanyu. Gusangira n’umwana wanyu uko murangamira Yesu Kristo mu gihe cy’isakaramentu. Mufashe umwana wanyu gukora gahunda yo kwerekana ko isakaramentu ari ritagatifu kuri bo. Nk’urugero, kumva amagambo y’amasengesho y’isakaramentu bishobora kutwibutsa igihango cyacu cy’umubatizo.

• Ibibazo byinshi by’igazeti Inshuti ikubiyemo ingingo, inkuru, n’ibikorwa byo gufasha abana kwitegura umubatizo n’Ukwemezwa. Mureke umwana wanyu ahitemo bimwe yasoma kandi anezererwe hamwe namwe. (Reba kandi urwunge ”Preparing for Baptism” mu gice cy’Isomero ry’Inuru Nziza cy’abana.)

Ubutambyi ni ubushobozi n’ububasha bw’Imana Imana bwo guha umugisha abana bayo. Ubutambyi bw’Imana buri ku isi uyu munsi mu Itorero rya Yesu Kristo ry’Abera b’Iminsi ya Nyuma. ”Abanyamuryango b’Itorero bose barinda ibihango byabo—abagore, abagabo n’abana—bahabwa umugisha w’ububasha bw’ubutambyi bw’Imana mu ngo zabo kugira ngo bikomeze ubwabo n’imiryango yabo” (Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange: Gufashiriza mu Itorero rya Yesu Kristo ry’Abera b’Iminsi ya Nyuma, 3.6, Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza). Ubu bubasha bufasha abanyamuryango gukora umurimo w’Imana w’agakiza n’ikuzo mu buzima bwabo bwite n’imiryango (reba Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 2.2).

Mu gihe abagabo n’abagore bafasha mu mihamagaro y’Itorero, babikorana ubushobozi bw’ubutambyi, bayobowe n’abafite imfunguzo z’ubutambyi. Abana bose ba Data wo mu Ijuru—Abahungu Be n’abakobwa Be—bahabwa umugisha uko basobanukiwe kurushaho ubutambyi Bwe.

Twakira imigenzo kubw’ubushobozi bw’ubutambyi. “Abanyamuryango b’Itorero b’igitsina gabo bakwiriye bahabwa ubushobozi bw’ubutambyi binyuze mu butambyi butangwa n’ugutoranyirizwa imyanya y’ubutambyi” (Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange3.4). Abafite imyanya y’ubutambyi bashobora kwemererwa n’umuntu ufite imfunguzo kugira ngo bakore imigenzo y’ubutambyi.

Kugira ngo mumenye kurushaho ibyerekeye ubutambyi, reba Russell M.Nelson, “Spiritual Treasures,” Liyahona, Ugushyingo 2019, 76–79; Russell M. Nelson, “The Price of Priesthood Power,” Liyahona, Gicurasi 2016, 66–69; “Amahame y’Ubutambyi,” igice cya 3 mu Gitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange.

• Imigenzo y’ubutambyi muyigire igice gihamye cy’ubuzima bw’umuryango wanyu. Nk’urugero, mufashe umwana wanyu kwitegurira mu buryo bwa roho isakaramentu buri cyumweru. Mushyigikire umwana wanyu gusaba imigisha y’ubutambyi mu gihe barwaye cyangwa bakeneye guhumurizwa cyangwa kuyoborwa. Kugaragaza inzira Nyagasani aha umugisha umuryango wanyu binyuze mu bubasha Bwe mubigire ingeso.

• Uko musomera hawe ibyanditswe bitagatifu, murebe imyanya yo kuganira uko Imana iha umugisha abantu binyuze mu bubasha Bwayo. Musangize ibyababayeho ubwanyu bwite igihe Imana yabahaga umugisha binyuze mu butambyi Bwayo. Ingero z’imigisha duhabwa n’Imana binyuze mu butambyi, reba Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 3.2, 3.5.

• Mwigishe umwana wanyu ko nyuma y’umubatizo, bashobora kwakira ububasha bw’Imana kubw’ukurinda igihango cy’umubatizo. Musubiriremo hamwe ubutumwa bwa Russell M. Nelson “Spiritual Treasures” (Liyahona) Ugushyingo 2019, 76–79). Mubwire umwana wanyu uko imigenzo y’ubutambyi yazanye ububasha bw’Imana mu buzima bwanyu. Kubw’urutonde rw’uburyo duhabwamo imigisha kubw’ububasha bw’Imana, reba Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 3.5.

• Muganire kuri iki kibazo “Umugaragu wa Nyagasani aba ameze ate?” Musomere hamwe Inyigisho n’Ibihango 121:36–42, kandi mushake ibisubizo. Igihe icyo aricyo cyose mubonye umwana wanyu (cyangwa undi muntu) akurikiza rimwe mu mahame cyangwa imico iri muri iyi mirongo, mujye mubimubwira.

• Igihe mwebwe cyangwa umwana wanyu mukoresheje imfunguzo mukingura cyangwa mwatsa imodoka, nimufate umwanya wo kugereranya izo mfunguzo ku mfunguzo abayobozi b’ubutambyi bafite. (Kubw’igisobanuro cy’imfunguzo z’ubutambyi, reba Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 3.4.1). Ni iki imfunguzo z’ubutambyi ”zidufunguramo” cyangwa ”zitwatsamo”? Reba kandi Gary E. Stevenson, “Where Are the Keys and Authority of the Priesthood?,” Liahona, May 2016, 29–32; “Where Are the Keys?” (videwo), Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza.

  

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Ingoro ni igice cy’umugambi wa Data wo mu Ijuru ku Bana Be. Mu nzu ya Nyagasani, tugirana na Data wo mu Ijuru ibihango bitagatifu uko twitabira imigenzo mitagatifu, yose ikaba yerekeza kuri Yesu Kristo. Data wo mu Ijuru yahaye abana Be bose inzira yo kugirana ibihango no kwitabira imigenzo, harimo n’abantu batayihawe muri ubu buzima. Mu ntangiriro y’umwaka umwana wanyu yuzuzamo imyaka 12, baba bakuze bihagije kugira ngo babatirizwe kandi bemererwe mu ngoro kubw’abakurambere bapfuye (reba kandi 1 Abakorinto 15:29).

• Nimujye mu nzu ya Nyagasani kenshi uko ibihe bibibemereye. Mubwire umwana wanyu impamvu mugiyeyo n’uko ingoro ibafasha kumva ko murushijeho kwegera Data wo mu Ijuru na Yesu Kristo.

• Musubiremo kandi muganirire hamwe ibibazo by’uruhushya rwo kwinjira mu ngoro. Mushobora kubibona kuri paji 36–37 zo For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices. Mubwire umwana wanyu uko bigenda mu kiganiro cy’uruhushya rwo kwinjira mu ngoro. Musangire impamvu kugira uruhushya rwo kwinjira mu ngoro ari iby’ingenzi kuri mwebwe.

• Musomere hamwe Malaki 4:6. Muvuge ibyerekeranye n’uko imitima yanyu ishobora guhindukirira abakurambere banyu. Murusheho kumenya ibyerekeye abakurambere banyu mushakira hamwe amateka y’umuryango wanyu kuri FamilySearch.org. Mushakishe abakurambere bakeneye kubatizwa no kwemezwa. Umugishwanama mu mateka y’ingoro n’umuryango muri paruwasi ashobora kubafasha.

• Gusubiriramo hamwe bimwe mu bikoresho mu rwunge rwitwa ”Ingoro” mu gice cy’abana cy’Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza. (Reba kandi “Preparing Your Child for Temple Baptisms and Confirmations” kuri ChurchofJesusChrist.org.)

Umugisha wa Patiriyariki ushobora kuba isoko y’uburongozi, ihumure, n’imurikirwa. Hakubiyemo inama ku giti cyacu iturutse kuri data wo mu Ijuru kandi bidufasha gusobanukirwa umwirondoro wacu uhoraho n’intego. Mufashe umwana wanyu kwitegura no kwakira umugisha wa Patiriyariki mubigisha igisobanuro na kamere ntagatifu y’imigisha ya Patiriyariki.

Kugira ngo murusheho kumenya, nimurebe Topics and Questions, “Isakaramentu,” Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza.

• Nimusangire n’umwana wanyu ibyababayeho mwakira umugisha wa Patiriyariki. Mushobora gusangira ibintu byerekeye uko mwiteguye kuwakira, uko wabafashije kurushaho kwegera Imana, n’uko Ikomeje kubayobora binyuze muri uyu mugisha. Mushobora kandi gusaba umwana wanyu kuvugana n’abantu bo mu wundi muryango bahawe imigisha yabo ya Patiriyariki.

• Musubiriremo hamwe ubutumwa bw’Umukuru Randall K. Bennett“Your Patriarchal Blessing—Inspired Direction from Heavenly Father” n’ubutumwa bw’Umukuru Kazuhiko Yamashita“Ni Ryari Wakira Umugisha Wawe wa Patiriyariki” (Liahona, Gicurasi 2023, 42–43, 88–90). Musangizanye ibyo mwigiye kuri ubu butumwa bywerekeranye n’impamvu Data wo mu Ijuru ashaka ko duhabwa umugisha wa Patiriyariki. Kugira ngo tumenye ibyerekeranye n’inzira yo kwakira umugisha wa Patiriyariki, reba Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 18.17.

• Niba ufite abakurambere bahawe imigisha ya Patiriyariki, byashobora kuduha inama yo gusoma bamwe muri bo hamwe n’umwana wanyu. Kugira ngo dusabe imigisha y’abakurambere bapfuye, nimwinjire muri ChurchofjesusChrist.org, ukande kuri Tools mu nguni y’iburyo hejuru kuri mugaragaza, noneho uhitemo Umugisha wa Patiriyariki.

• Umwana wanyu namara guhabwa umugisha wa Patiriyariki, musabe abanyamuryango abo aribo bose bari bahari kwandika ibyiyumviro byabo kandi mubisangire n’umwana wanyu.

Imana ishaka guha ingabire, cyangwa guha umugisha,abana Bayo bose n’”ububasha buvuye mu ijuru”(Inyigisho n’Ibihango 95:8). Ujya mu ngoro kwakira ingabire yacu bwite,rimwe gusa, ariko ibihango tugirana n’Imana n’ububasha bwa roho Iduha nk’igice cy’ingabire bishobora kuduha umugisha buri munsi w’ubuzima bwacu.

• Mugaragaze ishusho y’ingoro mu nzu yanyu. Mubwire umwana wanyu ibyerekeye ibyiyumviro mwumvira mu nzu ya Nyagasani. Muvuge kenshi ku rukundo mufitiye Nyagasani n’inzu Ye n’ibihango mwagiriyemo. Mushakishe imyanya yo kujyana mu ngoro n’umwana wanyu gukora imibatizo n’Ukwemezwa kubw’abakurambere babo.

• Mwogogere hamwe temples.ChurchofJesusChrist.org . Musome inkuru nka “About the Temple Endowment” na “Prepare for the House of the Lord.” Nimureke umwana wanyu abaze ibibazo ibyo aribyo byose byerekeranye n’ingoro. Kubw’indongozi ku byerekeranye n’ibyo mushobora kuvugaho hanze y’ingoro, murebe ubutumwa b’Umukuru David A. Bednar “Prepared to Obtain Every Needful Thing” (Liahona, Gicurasi 2019, 101–4; murebe by’umwihariko igice kitwa “Home–Centered and Church–Supported Learning and Temple Preparation”).

• Uko mwebwe n’umwana wanyu mwitabira cyangwa mubera abahamya indi migenzo (nk’isakaramentu cyangwa umugisha w’ugukira), mufate umwanya wo kuganira ku kintu gishushanywa muri uwo mugenzo. Ni iki ibimenyetso bivuga? Mbese muhamya mute Yesu Kristo? Ibi bishobora gufasha umwana wanyu kwitegura kwitondera igisobanuro gishushanywa n’imigenzo yo mu ngoro, iryo kandi ihamya Yesu Kristo.

• Nimufashe umwana wanyu kwitegereza uko bakomeza igihango cy’umubatizo bisobanurwa muri Mosaya 18:10, 13 (reba kandi imirongo 8–9, isobanura imbuto z’icyo gihango. kandi nimufashe umwana wanyu kwitegereza uko Nyagasani abaha umugisha. Nimwagure icyizere cy’umwana wanyu mu bushobozi bwo kurinda ibihango.

• Nimuganire mwisanzuye kandi kenshi ku byrekeye uko ibihango byanyu byo mu ngoro biyobora amahitamo yanyu kandi bibafasha kwegera kurushaho Yesu Kristo. Mushobora gukoresha Igitabo cy’amabwiriza Rusange, 27.2, kugira ngo musubiremo ibihango tugirira mu ngoro. Niba mwarahawe ingabire, nimubwire abana banyu ibyerekeye uko umwambaro w’ingoro ubafasha kwibuka ibihango byanyu mwagiranye na Yesu Kristo (reba “Sacred Temple Clothing” [video], Gospel Library; Anette J. Dennis, “Put Ye On the Lord Jesus Christ,” Liahona, May 2024, 10–13).

  

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Umukuru David A. Bednar yagishije ko ikintu kimwe cy’ingenzi kurushaho ushobora gukora ngo witegure umuhamagaro wo gufasha ni uguhinduka umuvugabutumwa mbere cyane y’uko ujya mu ivugabutumwa. Ikigenderewe si ukujya mu ivugabutumwa; ahubwo ikigenderewe ni uguhinduka umuvugabutumwa no gufasha mu buzima bwacu uko bwakabaye n’umutima wacu wose, ubushobozi, ubwenge, n’imbaraga. Murimo kwitegurira umurimo w’ivugabutumwa ry’ubuzima bwose” (”Becoming a Missionary,” Liahona, Ugushyingo 2005, 45–46). Ubunararibonye umwana wanyu agira mu gihe ahinduka umuvugabutumwa buzabaha umugisha ubuziraherezo, atari gusa mu gihe bashobora kuba bakora ivugabutumwa.

Kugira ngo tumenye biruseho, reba Russell M. Nelson, “Preaching the Gospel of Peace,” Liahona, Gicurasi 2022, 6–7; Gary E. Stevenson, “Love, Share, Invite,” Liahona, May 2022, 84–87; “Adjusting to Missionary Life,” Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza.

• Nimushushanye rwo gusangiza inkuru nziza mu buryo busanzwe. Nimuhore muri maso ku mahirwe yo gusangira n’abandi ibyiyumviro byanyu ku byerekeye Data wo mu Ijuru n’Umukiza n’imigisha muhabwa n’inkuru nziza yagaruwe y’Umukiza kandi nk’umunyamuryango w’Itorero Rye. Mutumirire abandi kwifatanya n’umuryango wanyu mu Itorero – n’ibikorwa bifite icyo bipfana n’umuryango.

• Mushakishe imyanya kubw’umuryango wanyu yo gushyikirana n’abavugabutumwa. Mubatumirire kwigisha inshuti zanyu, cyangwa mubahe icyifuzo cyo kwigishiriza abantu mu rugo rwanyu. Mubaze abavugabutumwa ibyerekeranye n’ubunararibonye bagenda bagira n’uko umurimo w’ivigabutumwa urimo kubafasha kurushaho kwegera Yesu Kristo. Kandi kandi mubaze icyo bakoze (cyangwa bifuza ko baba barakoze) kugira ngo bitegure kuba abavugabutumwa.

• Niba mwarakoze ivugabutumwa, nimuvuge ku mugaragaro kandi kenshi ibyerekeye ubunararibonye bwanyu. Cyangwa mutumire inshuti n’abo mu muryango bagiye mu mavugabutumwa kugira ngo bavuge ibyerekeranye n’ubwabo. Mushobora kandi kuvuga ku buryo mwasangiye inkuru nziza n’abandi mu buzima bwanyu. Mufashe umwana wanyu gutekereza ku buryo bashobora gusangira inkuru nziza.

• Muhe umwana wanyu umwanya wo kwigisha umuryango wanyu amahame y’inkuru nziza. Umwana wanyu ashobora kandi kwimenyereza gusangira imyemerere yabo n’abandi. Nk’urugero, mushobora kuganira ku bibazo nka ”Mbese ni gute twasogongeza Igitabo cya Morumoni umuntu utarigeze na rimwe acyumva?” cyangwa Mbese ni gute twasobanurira umuntu utari Umukristo ko dukeneye Umukiza?” (Reba Ahmad S. Corbitt, “Uzi impamvu njye nk’Umukristo Nemera Kristo?,” Liahona, Gicurasi 2023, 119–21.)

• Mufashe umwana wanyu kumva yisanzuye mu gihe avugana n’abantu. Mbese ni izihe nzira nziza zo gutangiza ikiganiro? Gushyigikira umwana wanyu kumenya gutega amatwi ibyo abandi bavuga, gusobanukirwa ibiri mu mtima yabo, no gusangira amahame y’inkuru nziza ashobora guhesha umugisha ubuzima bwabo.

• Gushakisha imyanya kubw’umwana wanyu yo kumenya ibyerekeye indi mico n’ukwizera. Mubafashe kumenya no kubaha amahame meza kandi nyakuri mu myemerere y’abandi.

Mu ngoro, umugabo n’umugore bashobora gushyingirwa ubuziraherezo. Ibi bibaho mu mugenzo witwa ”ugufatanywa mu ngoro”. Nubwo uyu mugenzo ku mukobwa cyangwa umuhungu wanyu ushobora kubaho nyuma y’imyaka myinshi, ibintu bitoya, byoroshye mukorera hamwe muri iyo myaka bishobora kubafasha kwitegura uyu mugisha utangaje.

• Musomere hamwe “Umuryango: Itangazo ku Isi” (Isomero ry’Inkuru Nziza). Mbese ni iki iri tangazo ryigisha ku byerekeye ibyishimo mu buzima bw’umuryango kandi byerekeye ugushyingiranwa? Hamwe n’uwana wanyu, muhitemo rimwe mu mahame atondaguye muri iryo tangazo kugira ngo aryige. Mushobora kureba mu byanditswe bitagatifu birebana n’iryo hame muri Guide to the Scriptures. Mushobora kandi gushyiraho intego zo gukurikiza iryo hame byuzuye kurushaho mu muryango wanyu. Uko mukora kuri izo ntego, muganirire hamwe ingaruka uko gukurikiza iryo hame gufite mu buzima bw’umuryango.

• Hamwe n’umwana wanyu, musome ubutumwa bw’Umuyobozi Dieter F. Uchtdorf “In Praise of Those Who Save” (Liahona, May 2016, 77–80). Nimugera ku gice gifite umutwe “A Society of Disposables,” mushobora gushakisha ibintu mu rugo rwanyu bikoreshwa igihe gito n’ibindi bintu bitari ibyo. Muvuge ibyerekeranye n’uko mwita ku bintu mu buryo butandukanye mu gihe mushaka ko bizamara igihe kirekire. Mbese ibi biraduha iyihe nama ku byerekeranye n’uko tugomba kwita ku mashyingiranwa n’imibanire y’umuryango? Mbese ni iki kindi twigira mu butumwa bw’Umuyobozi Uchtdorf ku byerekeranye n’uko Umukiza ashobora kudufasha kubaka ishyingirwa gukomeye n’imiryango?

• Ntimugire icyo muhisha umwana wanyu ku byerekeye ibintu wowe n’umufasha wawe murimo kwiga byerekeranye no kugira gushyingirwa gushingiye kuri Kristo n’inzira murimo kugerageza kunoza. Niba wowe n’umufasha wawe mwaromekanyirijwe mu ngoro, mwereke umwana wanyu kubw’urugero ukp uharanira kubahiriza ibihango byawe na Nyagasani. Mubwire umwana wanyu uko muharanira kugira Data wo mu Ijuru n’Umukiza izingiro ry’umubano wanyu n’uko Babafasha (reba kandi Ulisses Soares, “In Partnership with the Lord,” Liahona, Ugushyingo 2022, 42–45).

• Mu gihe ibyemezo by’umuryango bigomba gufatwa, mujye mugira inama z’umuryango n’ibiganiro. Mumenye neza ko ibitekerezo by’abanyamuryango byumviswe kandi byahawe agaciro. Mukoreshe ibi biganiro nk’umwanya ushushanya ugusabana kuzima n’urugwiro mu mibanire y’umuryango, ndetse n’ubwo buri muntu atabona ibintu kimwe. (reba Ronald A. Rasband, “Family Councils,” Liahona, Gicurasi 2016, 63–65.)

• Mu gihe hari ubwumvikane bukeya cyangwa amakimbirane mu muryango, mugaragaze ukwihangana n’ibambe. Mufashe umwana wanyu kureba uko gukemura amakimbirane mu buryo busa b’ubwa Kristo bishobora kubafasha kwitegura ishyingirwa kurimo ibyishimo. Musomere hamwe Inyigisho n’Ibihango 121:41–42, kandi muganire ku byerekeye uko amahame muri iyi mirongo ashobora gukoreshwa mu bashyingiranywe.