2025
When People at Church Misjudged Me
For the Strength of Youth August 2025


Youth Voices

When People at Church Misjudged Me

young man and young woman looking awkward

Illustration by Katelyn Budge

There was once a situation where some members in our ward were misjudging my friend and me. He and I were together a lot, serving and participating in activities, and rumors began that we were dating and doing something wrong.

The rumors also claimed that my family was being rude to my friend. Although we knew it wasn’t true, I was upset because he was always treated well in my home. I didn’t want to go to church and see or talk with the people who were spreading the false rumors.

However, I remembered that we go to church because of the gospel of Jesus Christ, not just because of the people there. People sometimes criticize others without knowing what’s really going on, and I knew this moment would pass and that I could forgive them. I shared these thoughts with my friend. By looking to Jesus Christ, we found peace.

Jesus Christ is salvation. He is love and truth. He is everything good. He is the way of salvation, the path where I can have eternal happiness.

Lara L., age 16, Ceará, Brazil

Enjoys playing soccer and volleyball.