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Lesson 197: Sharing the Gospel in Natural Ways—Sharing the Gospel Can Be Part of Everyday Life


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Missionary Preparation: Lesson 197

Sharing the Gospel in Natural Ways

Sharing the Gospel Can Be Part of Everyday Life

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Consider that you are invited to a friend’s house for breakfast. On the table you see a large pitcher of freshly squeezed orange juice from which your host fills his glass. But he offers you none. Finally, you ask, “Could I have a glass of orange juice?”

He replies, “Oh, I am sorry. I was afraid you might not like orange juice, and I didn’t want to offend you by offering you something you didn’t desire.”

Now, that sounds absurd, but it is not too different from the way we hesitate to offer up something far sweeter than orange juice. (Robert C. Oaks, “Sharing the Gospel,” Ensign, Nov. 2000, 81)

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Lesson Purpose: To help you practice sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ with others in natural ways.

Learn How

Why we share

note iconStudy three or more of the following passages, looking for why you would want your loved ones to know about the Savior. Next to the passages you choose, make a note that completes the following statement:

I want my family to know this because …

Overcoming hesitancy

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles offered suggestions on how to share the gospel with others:

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Wherever you are on this earth, there are plenty of opportunities to share the good news of the gospel of Jesus Christ with people you meet, study with, and live with or work and socialize with. …

… What I am asking is that you always look for opportunities to bring up your faith in natural and normal ways with people—both in person as well as online. …

In whatever ways seem natural and normal to you, share with people why Jesus Christ and His Church are important to you. (“Missionary Work: Sharing What Is in Your Heart,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2019, 15, 17)

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What makes the difference between feeling “natural and normal” and feeling awkward while sharing the gospel? Can you think of anyone who talks about the gospel in a natural way? If so, how do they do it?

Study one or both of the following resources to help you see some natural ways you can share the gospel with others.

  1. Simple Ways to Love, Share, and Invite for Youth” (2:52).

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  2. How Youth Can Share the Gospel (Suggestions for ways to share the gospel)

The “mirror quality” method

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Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles explained one way you can create conversations about gospel subjects.

Elder Quentin L. Cook

I know one BYU graduate who is a great example. He points out that there is a mirror quality to conversation. If we talk about the weather, people respond by talking about the weather. If we talk about sports, they respond by talking about sports. This friend says he asks people he meets about their school and listens intently. After they respond by asking him about his school, he tells them about BYU and then shares his testimony of the gospel. Then, in a positive way, he offers to let them learn more from the missionaries. He has been very successful in sharing the gospel. (“How to Be a Member Missionary,” New Era, Feb. 2015, 48)

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You don’t have to go to Brigham Young University to use the method Elder Cook described. The following steps can help you share the gospel in a normal and natural way.

  1. Choose something you have done recently or will do soon to participate in the Church of Jesus Christ or His gospel.

  2. Think of a question you could ask someone that will make it more natural for you to share what you chose about the Savior’s Church or gospel.

  3. Ask your question, listen sincerely to their answer, and then share what you chose.

For example, you might do the following:

  • Ask, “How has your morning been?” (Listen to their answer.) Then share something like, “I had the best experience this morning in seminary learning. …”

  • Ask, “Do you have anything fun planned this week?” (Listen to their answer.) Then share something like “I get to go to the temple with my family on Wednesday night to …”

Dig Deeper: The mirror method is just one approach to sharing the gospel. President Henry B. Eyring of the First Presidency taught other principles in his talk “A Child and a Disciple” (Ensign or Liahona, May 2003, 30).

Now What?

notebook iconThe Lord will help you as you make efforts to share the gospel with others. Think about times in the coming week when you may be able to share the gospel. Record opportunities in your notebook or on your phone.

Share Your Thoughts

Lesson Purpose: To help students practice sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ with others in natural ways.

share iconShare one or more of the following with your teacher or class:

  • At least two examples of how you can use the mirroring approach to share the gospel in normal and natural ways.

  • Something specific you did to achieve the purpose of this lesson.

  • Any questions this lesson raised for you. How will you try to find answers to your questions?