“Managing Stress and Anxiety: Jesus Christ Can Help Us Manage Our Stress and Anxiety,” Old Testament Seminary Teacher Manual (2026)
“Managing Stress and Anxiety: Jesus Christ Can Help Us Manage Our Stress and Anxiety,” Old Testament Seminary Teacher Manual
Physical and Emotional Health: Lesson 184
Managing Stress and Anxiety
Jesus Christ Can Help Us Manage Our Stress and Anxiety
We all feel stress and anxiety. These emotions can help us accomplish daily tasks and meet the challenges of life. However, prolonged stress and anxiousness can negatively affect us. Thankfully, the Savior has promised us His help and His peace (see John 14:27). This lesson can help students practice skills that draw upon the Savior’s power to manage stress and anxiety.
Student preparation: Invite students to think of situations when they feel stressed or anxious and ways they can turn to the Lord for help.
Possible Learning Activities
Stress and anxiety
Note: You do not need to be a mental health expert to teach this lesson. Pray for Heavenly Father’s guidance, follow the lesson materials, and trust the Holy Ghost. If students share the personal struggles they face or ask questions you cannot address as part of this lesson, express your gratitude for their trust in confiding in you. Reassure them that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ love them. Encourage them to seek additional counsel from parents, Church leaders, school counselors, or other emotional health professionals.
Consider beginning the lesson in a way that helps students think about managing stress and anxiety. For example, the following scenario could be used or adapted to better relate to your students:
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If someone could only lift 25 kg (55 lbs) and they tried to lift 70 kg (154 lbs), what would likely happen? How might they feel?
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What if this same person started lifting 25 kg (55 lbs) and gradually added small amounts of weight every week? How might it affect their strength? How might they feel?
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What would happen if this person never tried to lift more than 25 kg (55 lbs)?
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How might the weight in these situations be compared to managing stress and anxiety?
To help students understand the different levels of stress and anxiety, you could share the handout “Stress and Anxiety.” Invite students to read the chart and fill in the self–evaluation questions in the third column.
As you study this lesson, seek help from the Lord as you learn skills that can help you manage feelings of stress and anxiety.
Counsel from a prophet
Read the following statement from President Russell M. Nelson, looking for how we can overcome our anxieties.
The Lord has declared that despite today’s unprecedented challenges, those who build their foundations upon Jesus Christ, and have learned how to draw upon His power, need not succumb to the unique anxieties of this era. (“The Temple and Your Spiritual Foundation,” Liahona, Nov. 2021, 94)
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What did you like or learn from this statement?
Students may mention a truth like: As we draw upon the power of Jesus Christ, we can manage our anxieties.
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What do you think it means to draw upon the Savior’s power?
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How might His power help us manage stress and anxiety? Which additional resources could Jesus Christ help us recognize?
The remainder of this lesson gives students an opportunity to practice applying gospel principles that can help them draw upon the power of Jesus Christ to manage anxiety.
Examine our expectations and turn to the Lord for help
One way to deal with our stressful or anxious feelings is to recognize our expectations and align them with what the Lord desires for us. Unrealistic or unmet expectations can be a strong source of disappointment and stress.
Read Mosiah 4:27, looking for what the Lord expects of us.
If students do not point it out, note that the Lord does not expect us to run faster than we have strength, yet He still expects us to be diligent. We do not need to lift too much, but we do need to be steadily trying.
For an example of someone who needed to examine their expectations, share with students that as he led the children of Israel as the prophet, Moses tried to do more than he should have. The Lord helped Moses through the counsel of his father–in-law, Jethro.
Read Exodus 18:13–18, looking for why Moses’ father in law was concerned.
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Which phrases indicate what would happen to Moses if he continued counseling the people all day every day?
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What might this look like today?
Define
Explain to students that it can be a useful skill to evaluate their expectations by using the following two questions. Consider writing them on the board.
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Am I trying to do more or less than the Lord would have me do (either run faster than I have strength or not be diligent)?
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How can I turn to the Lord for help?
Model
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If you were in the situation Moses faced, how would you answer the two questions on the board?
If additional modern-day examples may be useful, consider inviting students to share some unrealistic expectations they or others have had. They could use the questions on the board to evaluate the following expectations:
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I am going to read the Book of Mormon for 90 minutes a day.
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I am never going to make any mistakes again.
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I don’t need to prepare for a mission. I’ll just figure it out while I’m there.
Practice
Select one thing in your life that causes you stress and anxiety and practice evaluating your expectations. Seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost as you ask yourself the questions on the board and think about how you can turn to the Lord for help.
Counsel with someone you trust to identify the next step
Define the skill
Help students understand that after they examine their expectations, the Lord wants to help them know what to do next. One way the Lord helps us is through others; for example, counseling with someone we trust. As students counsel with others, they can discuss what must get done now, what can wait, or what could be dropped or done by someone else. Reassure students that it is not helpful to feel guilty for setting healthy boundaries or by saying “no” or “not yet” to some opportunities.
Model the skill
The Lord helped Moses through his father–in–law, Jethro. As Moses counseled with his father-in-law, Jethro proposed a solution to the problem.
Read Exodus 18:19–24, looking for what Jethro counseled Moses to do next.
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Why do you think Jethro’s counsel was helpful?
Instead of facing all his problems at once, Moses was able to get the help he needed to take the next step.
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Who are some people the Lord may want you to counsel with when you feel stress and anxiety? What counsel have they given you?
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How has wise counsel reduced stress or anxiety for you or someone you know?
Help students recognize that the Lord can help them through parents, older siblings, teachers, counselors, mental health professionals, Church leaders, and others when they feel anxious or stressed.
Practice the skill
In your study journal, reflect on a time when you felt overwhelmed, stressed, or anxious. Write whom the Lord may want you to counsel with about what to do next and how you think talking with that person may help you.
Consider inviting students to review the handout and share what they liked or learned through this lesson. Add your own thoughts and bear testimony of the truth of this lesson.